When I was eighteen years old, someone wanted to introduce me to someone, but I felt that I was living a good life alone, and I didn't want others to share my life and participate in my life, so I always avoided it.
When did you start to change your views? Probably when I was in Hangzhou.
Working in Hangzhou, it takes about an hour to commute back and forth. I didn¡¯t know the way at first, and I was afraid that I would be late for work, so I ride a shared bicycle, which costs about 12 yuan a month.
Later, when the road became familiar, I thought that I would have time to walk there, so I stopped riding a bicycle and walked to and from get off work instead.
Then I was thinking, maybe the time of the poor is the least valuable.
Later, I quit my job but never found another job. I was actually anxious at first, but my sister said that it¡¯s okay to find a job slowly. Don¡¯t work just to find a job, but work after you want to work.
I was persuaded and started a life of salted fish lying at home. I started to idle from October 1st until about 20 days before the Chinese New Year.
Maybe my sister didn't think that I was so unmotivated.
How can I say those days, it was not as comfortable as I imagined. I was facing the mobile phone every day, and I felt that the mobile phone was not so fun after a long time.
Although I don¡¯t go to work anymore, I still have to live. Rent, water and electricity, shopping and eating all cost money, but I¡¯m actually very good at saving money, and I¡¯m even better at saving money. Also passable.
Possibly because I had nothing to do, I began to think about some wild things, why do people live? Why do we all have to work all our lives? Why persist when life is so hard?
Maybe I'm just too busy.
My sister and I joked that there are so many rich people in Hangzhou, just come and take care of us with a rich old man, we don¡¯t want to work hard anymore.
In my eyes, a boyfriend is a shortcut.
In Ningbo before, a fellow villager visited my dad with a carton of milk and a watermelon, saying that he wanted to introduce me to her relatives. My dad waited for her to leave and asked my opinion. I said I don¡¯t want to like that fellow villager. Reach out to people she recommends.
My dad nodded and said that the boy's qualifications were indeed not outstanding, so he rejected the fellow.
This is the first blind date I came into contact with. The second blind date was introduced by my sister who was working before. She is working in a supermarket now, and then she met a boy who she thought was very good. She thought my age was more appropriate, so After encountering it once, it helped me pull this red thread.
How to say this boy, I gave a negative score on the first impression, because his WeChat avatar is too ugly, it is the green frog head that often appears on Weibo, it is okay as a funny picture, but as a WeChat avatar I really can't accept it, you said that if you are a handsome guy, then this avatar doesn't matter, but everyone is an ordinary person, I always feel like I am chatting with a frog again like you.
Then obviously, like me, he is a post-zero child, but his life style is like an old cadre. For example, he likes to read books, and there are Dumas¡¯s writings in his circle of friends. In addition, he likes to exercise, often goes to the gym, and says he can play billiards .
Emmmmm, it¡¯s not that these hobbies are bad, or that they are too good, and they give me an unreal feeling, and they are not post-zero at all.
I asked him if he played games, and he said that he occasionally played chicken, but not much.
? I am not interested in eating chicken. I like to play King of Kings, and I also worship high-ranking gods, so he has lost a lot of favorability with me.
He and that older sister work in a supermarket. The older sister is in the cosmetics area upstairs, and he is in the fresh meat area downstairs. He seems to be a small supervisor.
So he often told me about his work, such as what time to leave work today, and what is the sales target for this month, but I am not interested in these, and it always sounds boring.
He looked through my circle of friends and learned that I like traveling very much, so I told him that because I stayed in Ningbo for too long, I was yearning for the outside world.
He said that he had been to many places before, but felt that all the places were similar, so he didn't want to go out now, and planned to stay in Ningbo all the time.
This is different from my point of view. At that time, I yearned for big cities. I wanted to meet white-collar workers in a hurry on the street. I wanted to see the still lively street scene at six o¡¯clock in the evening. I wanted to step on the crowded subway in the morning. I want to punch in the Internet celebrity attractions, all of which make me happy.
What is there in this small place in Ningbo? There was nothing, so although I responded with words of approval in the chat box, I didn't take it seriously in my heart.
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Our two families have a lot of contacts. My younger sister¡¯s children are all helped by their family members, and I don¡¯t know how my dad met them. My dad gave me a mobile phone number and asked me to contact the boy. I searched for WeChat with the mobile phone number but couldn't find it, so my dad asked me to send him a text message.
So I edited a text message and sent it. The general meaning is that my dad thinks you are very good and wants us to get to know you. Your mobile phone number is not a WeChat ID. If it is convenient, add my WeChat ID.
Soon I received a verification message on WeChat. After I agreed, he explained that he forgot to open his mobile phone number to search WeChat, and then introduced his name in the form of "my name is xxx".
Well, this will increase your favorability.
I went to look at his circle of friends, but there is a setting that friends can be seen for three days. I can only see one circle of friends where he posted lunch. Here is a digression. The boy my brother introduced to me has three circles of friends The sky can see, but I saw five or six Douyin Chicken Soup sharing, the background picture is still his selfie, I was about to die laughing. Cough cough, back to the current topic, because my father told me that this boy is tall and handsome, so I have high expectations for him, and I also passed this information to him, he said that he is not handsome, give me I sent a selfie of him, the photo is really not handsome, even a bit like my brother-in-law, but it doesn't matter, you can contact him.
I also sent him a selfie of mine, saying that with a beautification filter, the real person¡¯s appearance was about 20% off. He said that he didn¡¯t even have a beautification in his selfie.
Then we exchanged each other's working hours, but it didn't quite match up. He works in the factory from eight to six, and works overtime until ten o'clock when he is busy.
I work in the chess and card room. From eleven o'clock in the noon to nine o'clock in the evening, we still don't stay up late, and we can only chat for a while around seven o'clock in the evening.
This boy is not very good at chatting, and I always bring up topics between us. I ask him about his hobbies, salary distribution, how to spend his rest time, and he only asks me about the driver's license test, driver's license, Hmph, I know the driver's license all day long.
Then I feel that the chat habits are not very suitable for me. For example, I never post emoticons, I like to use system emoticons, and there are dry cheers, such as "you can do it" and "wish you success". I don¡¯t know if it¡¯s because I have a glassy heart, but every time I see it, I always want to complain, what¡¯s wrong with it.
Then the very strange thing is that every time he chats with me, he always adds my name "xx, come on tomorrow" "xx, is there a driving school master¡ª¡ª" "xx, how are you doing?"
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Because I am not very used to calling other people's names, and I prefer to use "you", "I" and "he" instead of names when chatting, so seeing his habit like this is very strange, and I am not used to it.
The frequency of chatting with him is once every two days, but the chatting time is not long. We often close the dialog box tacitly after a topic is over. Today I wanted to chat with him more, but he seemed to be right. I am not interested in topics other than the driver's license, and I drag the chat conversation to the driving school again, which is also admirable. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com