Senior fellow apprentice Ye's lover is Hou Li, Pei Qin's classmate from the first class, and Pei Qin helped them match up!
Maybe it's because Hou Li's father is the governor of the province of J, so he is a little arrogant!
Pre-marriage is relatively restrained, because love is also a time of novelty!
Most of the love process is similar. At the beginning, both men and women are very reserved, they will restrain their petty temperament, and only show their best and most outstanding side in front of their lovers!
After marriage, it will not work. You may feel that you have obtained it, grasped it, and will not lose it again, and the novelty has passed, and then slowly some of your shortcomings are exposed!
For example, Pei Ting of the later generations, who has been in love with Song Kun for so long, did not realize that he smokes so fiercely!
OMG!
Really, even when kissing, I didn't feel any residual smoke smell!
So even now Pei Ting has not figured out the situation. Since when did Song Kun have such a strong addiction to cigarettes? Tell me how deep this person is hiding!
Of course, Pei Ting likes to sleep late in the morning after marriage, and she doesn't like to make quilts when she wakes up. She spends a lot of money, likes to eat, drink and have fun, likes to watch movies, likes to stay up late to watch dramas, and is very lazy and doesn't like to clean up the house!
Before marriage, although my mother Deng Ping told her son-in-law Song Kun that her daughter Pei Ting is the oldest child in the family, so she can't do anything, including cooking and cleaning the house. If you think about it, whether you can accept it or not, you can accept it as soon as possible. It's over!
What did Song Kun say at that moment, Mom, it doesn't matter, Xiaoting can't, I can! Don't worry!
It's a good idea, but it's a pity that it's not the case when we live together!
After marriage, Pei Ting gradually discovered that Song Kun was no longer tolerating herself, and began to complain that she didn't clean up the house, didn't make the quilt, and was too lazy
What Song Kun said is right, let's change it!
Pei Ting herself has no parents to count on, everything starts from scratch!
The first time to stir-fry, the first time to steam steamed buns, the first time to stew meat
Many firsts started after marriage!
well!
Pei Ting's thought at that time was that the path she chose had to be walked on her knees!
No matter what conflicts she had with Song Kun, she would never tell her parents that none of her family supported Pei Ting in marrying Song Kun back then, but Pei Ting insisted on going her own way, and because of love, she gave her life to Song Kun!
Now, if there is a problem, what face do you have to go back and tell your parents!
I can't, let's divorce this marriage, besides, I have many problems of my own, so try to change it!
Anyway, after marriage, I found that the lifestyle habits of the two families are too different. For example, Pei Ting has no sex, and their family once or twice a week!
Pei Ting loves to eat steamed buns with rice, and their family eats noodles at least twice a day!
well!
Let's adapt to each other slowly!
Brother Ye's wife, Hou Li, is probably similar to her, and she has discovered the difference in life!
The difference is that they have a strong background and good conditions, so they always talk about how big and good their family is!
Senior Brother Ye didn't care about these things, but the daughter-in-law just felt that he didn't pay enough attention to her, so Senior Brother Ye should work hard to change himself!
The result is that it doesn't work if you don't care, and you don't care! Why is it still not working!
Senior Brother Ye's temperament is actually not cold, on the contrary, it belongs to the kind that moistens things and makes no noise!
Uh, although sometimes he is not very good at speaking sweet words and coaxing women, but at least he knows that he has this problem, and it is a good thing that people are willing to change it for Hou Li!
However, it still doesn't work! Senior fellow apprentice Ye found out that his wife's desire to control was too strong. Who did he meet during the short ten-minute journey to the office after class? What did you say?
All must be explained clearly!
The two of them just had a little quarrel in three days, and a big quarrel in five days over trivial matters!
Brother Ye is already a teacher at school, and sometimes when the classmates get closer to him and ask about his studies, his wife will suspect that he is cheating, and it does not distinguish between men and women!
They are all a group of children, and they are all married, and they are also teachers, don't they even have this character!
Once or twice, Senior Brother Ye will patiently explain, and three or four times, Senior Brother Ye will only feel tired!
Then the communication was fruitless, so I often didn't go home after get off work, and came to eat with my old father!
In this way, Hou Li was even more dissatisfied!He is the kind of person who never knows how to introspect and only blames others!
Whether it is male or female, Pei Ting is unwilling to deal with people with this personality!
Moreover, it is really too difficult to change a person's personality, even love will not make the other person really change!
To be honest, dogs can't change eating shit! You wash the pig, and it will continue to roll in the mud!
People cannot use their own abilities to change another person!
Pei Ting thought about calling next time and simply telling her sister about this matter, if there is something she can't handle!
"Senior Brother Ye, you and your sister-in-law are still young, if you really don't want to live on, you should make a decision early, and you have no children, even if you divorce, it won't have much impact!"
"However, for my sister-in-law's extreme temper, I think you should have a heart-to-heart talk with her parents first, instead of avoiding seeing her, because avoiding the most can't solve any problems! It will only make my sister-in-law go to extremes even more hysterically! "
"Listen to my sister, she has been back to her mother's house for almost three months this time, and you haven't visited her. She misses you very much, but she can't bear to look for you! So, let my sister help her persuade you !"
"If you really feel that you can't be together, then take some time to settle the matter and make it clear to both parties! If you think sister-in-law may change, then give her another chance! What if it does, right? "
Pei Ting doesn't know what to do right, especially when it comes to other people's affairs!
Senior Brother Ye smiled and patted Pei Ting's head, sighing in his heart, Junior Sister is obedient, and Junior Sister's younger sister is smart!
"Don't worry, the brother will take care of it! Call the brother if you have something to do! Slow down on the road!"
"Well! Don't worry!"
Pei Ting drove back to school. Ye Fan stood by the side of the road and thought for a long time, but in the end he still didn't know how to deal with it. In fact, he couldn't tell if he still loved her in his heart!
Explain the matter clearly, and tell Hou Li the part that she can't accept. If she is really willing to change, then give her another chance. After all, my wife loved her deeply at the beginning!
Moreover, a harmonious family also requires two people to work together and slowly build it together!
As long as there is still love, Ye Fan believes that he and Hou Li can still go on! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com