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Students in class 3 of HR¡ª¡ªGuan Caijuan

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    Guan Caijuan¡¯s hometown is Henan, and she and Liu Yin are fellow villagers. Because Guan Caijuan¡¯s student number was No. 1 when she was assigned to the 3rd class of human resources, so every time in class, when the teacher rolls names and checks attendance, she will always use her student number.  Roll call in order: "Guan Caijuan, so-and-so, so-and-so, so-and-so" in this order.  Guan Caijuan studies hard is relatively hard. Every time during the break, when we are bragging, talking and laughing, playing and playing, Guan Caijuan sits in her own seat and seriously reads or does homework.  out of place.

    Guan Caijuan is short in stature, her face is brown and dark, she looks gentle and quiet on the surface, and she studies hard. Therefore, at first glance, she leaves the impression of a good student, unlike me, because I  I especially like to talk about Bao Caiqin in the dormitory of my classmates, in the dormitory of Class 2 of Human Resources, and in the dormitory of Class 1 of Marketing that Jia Fuliang later assigned to.  In my impression, it became the image of a yinzei.  Just as Tang Jianning, a classmate in Human Resources Class 2, commented on me: "Brother Jingshan, I think you are suitable to go to Japan to shoot that kind of action movie, and it will definitely be a big hit."

    Although Tang Jianning made such an evaluation of me, it was a kind of derogation to my character in words, but emotionally, it was a kind of envy for my vagabond dang in college.

    But like Guan Caijuan, it is not kind to be jealous and hate my love affair with Bao Caiqin and to speak ill of me to Bao Caiqin and other girls behind my back.  After all, I was a classmate, and I was not in the company where I was in a stressful environment of intrigue and deceit, so is there any need to belittle my image with jealousy and hatred?

    The reason why I know that Guan Caijuan intentionally demeaned my image with jealousy and hatred is because when I was in junior year, I once added a friend to QQ.  , majored in financial management.  Through my QQ chat with that girl, I learned that the girl¡¯s hometown is also in Henan.

    Almost all the girls I add as QQ friends know, and I almost always propose to date them, regardless of whether those girls have boyfriends or not.  Then that girl is no exception.  Then when I proposed to meet that girl, the girl chatted with me and mentioned that Guan Caijuan shared a dormitory with her, and then she said that Guan Caijuan told her that my hair was oily, what Guan Caijuan said was right, at that time, I  I really don¡¯t like haircuts. I have a slight obsessive-compulsive disorder, and I have a persistent opinion about my hair, that is, it is more attractive to wear long hair. This kind of obsessive opinion on a certain thing or certain things feels that only in this way can I be favored by others  The person who satisfies himself can be said to be a manifestation of mild obsessive-compulsive disorder. This mild obsessive-compulsive disorder is like a double-edged knife. If used well, it can benefit the development of technology, career, industry, and society.  It will harm one's own body, psychology, harm the interests of others, endanger the order of social morality, and even violate the law.  Of course, having a unique opinion about one's own hair will not harm the interests of others, and it will not harm or violate the social moral order and laws, but it will hinder dating and be called a greasy uncle by girls  Oh ha ha ha.

    Then the girl also chatted with me about other words that Guan Caijuan derogated my image, for example, I haven't bathed for a long time (this is also true, because I hate bathing, so I haven't bathed for a long time).

    After chatting with that girl, I knew that Guan Caijuan, who appeared to be honest on the surface, was at least talking nonsense to me behind her back.

    Or Guan Caijuan also relayed some of my situation when Bao Caiqin chatted with her when she was bragging with the girls in the dormitory like me.  Bao Caiqin mentioned that she and Bao Caiqin lived in the same dormitory, and they were probably divided into dormitories again later. Bao Caiqin and Guan Caijuan were no longer in the same dormitory, but what Bao Caiqin said to Guan Caijuan about me was "stored" in Guan Caijuan's "gossip".  Then when the girl in her dormitory met me in QQ, after Guan Caijuan knew about it, she put the memories that Bao Caiqin had stored in her "gossiping" memory function partition before being catalyzed by jealousy.  Released and expressed.  Otherwise, if I don¡¯t wash my hair or don¡¯t take a shower for a long time, what¡¯s the matter with her? What is she going to tell the girl I¡¯m in love with on QQ?

    Also, when Bao Caiqin and I were in a relationship, when Bao Caiqin broke up with me, I mentioned that someone saw me dating other girls on campus. Who else could this person be besides Guan Caijuan.

    During the four years in college, Guan Caijuan was not awarded a national scholarship for one or two years. Maybe Guan Caijuan hated me because I was awarded a national scholarship every year. I think this is the root cause of Guan Caijuan¡¯s jealousy of me.  It's like I'm jealous of Liu Yin, and I feel gloated when I see Liu Yin being hindered and frustrated.The situation is the same, and then I expressed my gloating towards Liu Yin with Wang Xun.

    So money and power are two great factors that destroy the friendship, relationship, love and marriage between people.  People who play tricks behind their backs to break up people who show off their love and marriage in a high-profile manner, and even the parties involved are kept in the dark after the marriage is broken up.  In the society, it is not uncommon for boyfriends or husbands to be taken away by their girlfriends with tricks. Therefore, for those close to you, you have to be on guard, especially between women and women.  Be even more cautious between girlfriends and girlfriends, superiors and subordinates, colleagues and colleagues, and even members of clubs at school.  Because relatively speaking, women are more jealous of women than men are of men.  The same goes for women's jealousy of men, men's jealousy of women, and men's jealousy of men.  Of course, if you are a good person, you don¡¯t like to be jealous of others, and you like to show your heart and soul to others, then you have to be careful, because you don¡¯t understand the harm that jealousy can do to the person being envied, so you don¡¯t know how to guard against being envied.  Jealousy, so, in the end, you will be hurt by others being jealous of you.  Therefore, when dealing with others, don¡¯t be too good, and know how to take care of the psychology of people who are not as good as you. For superiors, you must learn to give credit to your superiors. Also, don¡¯t do it stupidly.  What you should do, in this way, not only will you be thankless, but you will also be envied by your peers, and you will steal their limelight. You think you are helping others with good intentions, but in fact, you have not only failed to help others with good intentions, but have caused a division of labor.  A disruption of order.  Each maintains his position, performs his duties, and grades at different levels. Just do your own work well, and you don't have to take care of other people's affairs.  This will not only make your work easier, but also protect you from envious people.

    Of course, from another perspective, it can be seen that Guan Caijuan is also jealous of me because of her low self-esteem.  Guan Caijuan¡¯s poor family background, unattractive appearance, short stature and other reasons made her feel inferior to others, so she worked hard in her studies to make up for her poor family background, unattractive appearance, and short stature.  Therefore, she puts her sense of accomplishment on her studies. When other students who are better than her in other aspects also have better grades than her, she feels the hard work she puts into her studies and makes herself achieve.  Feeling threatened, so she will have feelings of jealousy and hatred towards me.  From this aspect, low self-esteem will also cause potential harm to oneself, others and society.  What is derived from this is that life, work, and study should not be carried out with utilitarianism, but should be enjoyed and enjoyed in the process.  Don't compare with others, learn to cherish what you have in front of you.  We should regard poor family background, unattractive appearance and other shortcomings as wealth, and hone our moral character and character in the process of experiencing these, so don't envy those who have rich family background, good looks, and happy marriages.  People also have their flaws or shortcomings.  Those who hope to complain about their own life, feel dissatisfied with their own defects or shortcomings, or their own life, take this opportunity to exercise their knowledge, morality, and character, which will add connotation to your future life.

    One day in the first semester of my sophomore year, a part-time recruitment advertisement was posted on the bulletin board in the North Campus of the school near the northeast of the gate of the North Campus. Then Jia Fuliang and I went to  I went to the class in the South Campus to make soy sauce, and then found out that the relevant personnel of a few part-time units that Guan Caijuan was in charge of contacted came to recruit people.  Then I think that Guan Caijuan did a good job in hosting the part-time recruitment, and she has the demeanor of a conference host.

    Probably in 2016, two years after graduating from university, and at that time, Wang Xun pulled my WeChat into the WeChat group of the 3rd class of HR.  I didn't have a WeChat group for my class before.  After I joined the WeChat group of the class, I clicked into the group members to see the WeChat profile pictures of the students. Some students¡¯ WeChat profile pictures were made from recent photos. Then I saw Guan Caijuan¡¯s profile picture on WeChat.  Guan Caijuan's face has undergone plastic surgery, and I can generally recognize her as Guan Caijuan. It seems that Guan Caijuan feels inferior to her appearance is true, so she used plastic surgery to change her unattractive appearance.  I hope that people who dislike their own background, appearance, family background, etc., can listen to the words of advice I wrote above, "Don't compare with others, learn to cherish what you have in front of you. Take the poverty of your family, the bad appearance, and so on.  Deficiencies in good looks and other aspects are regarded as wealth. In the process of experiencing these, you can hone your moral character and character, so don't envy those who are from rich families, good-looking, and happy marriages. People also have flaws or shortcomings. Hope  People who complain about their own life, who are dissatisfied with their own defects or shortcomings or their own life, take this opportunity to exercise their knowledge, morality, and character, and these things will add content to your future life.¡± (Remember this  Website URL: www.hlnovel.com)Or those who are dissatisfied with their own lives take this opportunity to exercise their knowledge, morality, and character, which will add connotation to your future life.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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