The fourth volume "But Hearing Sparrows" tells the love story of Ouyang Biyu and Mei Feier.
As a prostitute and a domestic prostitute, she bravely pursues her love because of her low status. In the end, one married a high-ranking cadre and the other entered a wealthy family. Their stories are really enviable.
[1] How did you become a "leftover woman"?
In today's society, freedom and openness, equality between men and women, why are there so many leftover women? The reason is that they don't know how to "pursue".
I remember that the first "Guanju" in "The Book of Songs" said it well: "Guanguan Jujiu is on the continent of the river; a fair lady is a gentleman." Even a bird knows how to pursue the opposite sex, let alone a human call?
Girls should respect and love themselves, but there is a limit to everything. When you meet a boy you like, you should take the initiative and pursue bravely. Otherwise, happiness will slip away from you.
Many people think that when in love, boys must take the initiative. If girls take the initiative, they will appear not reserved enough and make people feel frivolous.
However, we must be clear: in the world of love, whoever is brave will get love. Otherwise, it is easy to miss this marriage.
Maybe you will worry: What if he doesn't like me and is rejected?
In fact, these are redundant. If you have someone you like, you must let him know, maybe he just likes you too. I have read a lot of romance stories. When I was young, I was inferior and cowardly and dared not tell my secret love. After years, I found out that he also liked me.
Don't be afraid of not being successful, most girls are quite successful in chasing boys; if they fail, it is to accumulate experience, and there will be a chance of success in the future.
[2] Girls have more rights to actively pursue love.
A girl who chooses the wrong marriage will ruin her life. Therefore, in the world of love, there is nothing wrong with girls being brave. Young people, don't be afraid of the unknown ending, how do you know it will be a tragedy?
Although our country is much more open than before, it is still far from being as unrestrained as girls abroad. After all, thousands of years of thinking have been integrated into our bodies. Even if many girls like each other, they will not take the initiative to speak, and have to wait for the boy to speak.
"Quiet and elegant, wait for the flowers to come" girls will give boys an impulse to care, but how can love wait so easily? If it were really that easy to get, it wouldn't torture so many people. What if boys are also shy and embarrassed to speak? Wouldn't that be a missed relationship?
Therefore, girls should be reserved when they should be reserved, and be brave when they should not be reserved. It never hurts to be brave in a relationship.
[Three] Don't believe too much in fate.
If there is a "fate", this "fate" is also what you actively strive for.
Some girls will explain their "not brave" with the phrase "the heart has a clear understanding". I was still thinking: If he also likes me, how can he not see through my mind? Don't think that everyone can see your inner thoughts clearly. The best way is to speak out, which is conducive to the development of love.
Many straight men don't understand their girlfriend's sudden anger, and they don't understand why they suddenly changed their face when they were fine just now. This kind of problem, on the one hand, lies in the girl. She clearly has thoughts in her heart, but she just doesn't say it out, and she has to ask her boyfriend to guess. However, your boyfriend doesn't know what you're thinking at all, so he definitely can't guess it. In the end, it led to a breakup. Could it be that there is no "fate"? No, this is you driving away fate.
Boys are generally careless, and rarely notice the micro-expressions of their girlfriends, and fail to notice your little emotions. When a girl is angry, she thinks it has nothing to do with her and ignores it. more and more. Therefore, it is best not to let boys guess about girls' minds.
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Two people love each other out of sincerity, not a momentary impulse. To love the other party means to be responsible to the other party, express your love, and make the true feelings come from the heart. If you love each other, you must speak out loudly and pursue it bravely. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com