? Swallows are flying, but they are not as good as their feathers.
The son returns home and is sent away to the wild.
Looking forward, weeping like rain.
Yanyan is flying, and Jiezhi is flying.
The son returns home, farther than the general.
Looking forward, standing still and weeping.
Yanyan is flying, and its sound is up and down.
The son returned home and sent him far to the south.
?Looking beyond the reach, it really works my heart.
The Zhong family was appointed as the only one, and his heart was blocked.
In the end, you will be warm and kind, and you will be careful about yourself.
The thought of the king first, the widow with Xu.
When the Yuan family marries a daughter today, there will be a banquet at noon. This wine is commonly known as "open noodles wine", also known as "marriage wine". Sun Zhizhi is here to participate in this wedding.
After the "open noodles wine" is over, it's time for the daughter to get on the sedan chair.
According to etiquette, the bride should sit on the mother's lap, and the mother will feed her daughter a mouthful of food, commonly known as "shangjiao rice", which means don't forget the mother's kindness in nurturing.
But Fei'er is just a adopted daughter of Luoluo, and she is about the same age, so the two customs of "feeding the sedan chair" and "crying on the sedan chair" were exempted.
Next, the eldest uncle "carried into the sedan chair".
Luo Luo covered Fei'er with a hijab, Ji Xu picked her up, and the maid of honor held up a red umbrella to protect her, and walked towards the gate surrounded by everyone.
Sister Dajin and all the sisters sprinkled rice into the sky and the top of the umbrella while walking, saying "feed the golden rooster". It means that after the chicken pecks the rice, it will not peck the bride.
Dafang followed closely behind Ji Xu, with a little jealousy on his face, thinking: forget about letting your man hug the bride.
Because she found that Ji Xu's way of holding Fei'er was a little tight, so she said jealously: "You, why are you holding Fei'er so tightly?"
Ji Xu just panted, "My sister is tall, if I don't hold her tightly, I will fall her."
"I fell, what happened if I fell, will you feel distressed?"
Ji Xu intentionally annoyed her, "My sister, why don't you feel sorry for me!"
The accompanying people laughed and knew that the princess was jealous of the bride.
"It's you who let me hug you, and you who don't let me hug you." Ji Xu was a little displeased, because Fei'er was tall and tall, and the journey was far away.
"You are tired, you can rest for a while."
"Didn't you say that my sister's feet can't touch the ground?"
"It's not easy for you to find a stool, put it on, and rest for a while. When will such a large yard come to an end?"
"Can you keep silent?" Ji Xu gave a generous look
After finally walking to the big sedan chair at the door, Xi Niang still refused to let Ji Xu put the bride in the sedan chair. Xi Niang said with a smile: "What are you in a hurry~, is there any elder brother like you? As an elder brother, you have to look like you are nostalgic for your married sister."
Everyone knows that Xi Niang is deliberately "making things difficult" for the uncle.
yes! Such a handsome young man, who wouldn't want to make things difficult for him?
[2] "The Book of Songs. Wei Feng. Shuo Ren-Xia Que" The Book of Songs
Ao Ao, a handsome man, said it in the suburbs of the countryside.
The four males are proud, and Zhu Yu is so proud.
Zhai Fu Yichao. The doctor retreats long ago, so that the king will not be troubled.
The river is full of water, and the North Stream is alive.
Shi Yuyai, the fish and the tuna are fafa.
?Jia ÈI½â½â, Shujiang is evil, and the common people are guilty.
In the neighborhood, people watching "Married Girl" commented: "What a tall bride!"
Seeing that Ji Xu was sweating profusely, Xi Niang asked him to put the bride on the bench in front of the sedan chair.
The bride stood on it, and the bridesmaid quickly opened a red umbrella on top of the bride's head, which means "spread branches and leaves", and sprinkled rice into the sky and the top of the umbrella.
Seeing that the time came, Xi Niang shouted: "The bride is getting on the sedan chair!"
Fei'er bowed to thank the relatives and friends who saw her off, and with the support of her sister, she turned and stepped into the big sedan chair.
The four sedan chairmen immediately began to bind the facade.
After Fei'er got into the sedan chair and sat down, she wanted to exercise her tense spirit. Xi Niang quickly stopped and said, "Bride, don't move around~"
This means that after the bride sits in the sedan chair, her buttocks cannot move around - this is related to the bride's status in the husband's family, whether she is "settled" or not.
After the fa?ade was installed, eight bearers simultaneously lifted up the big sedan chair with a resounding sound of "lifting the sedan chair" from Xi Niang.
In an instant, firecrackers blared, blunderbusses rang out, gongs, drums, and trumpets rang through the streets and alleys.
 Comb the second comb until the white hair is even with the eyebrows, the third comb until the children and grandchildren are all over the floor, and the fourth comb until the four silver bamboo shoots are all in line. "Shangtou" is a very particular ceremony. You need to use a new comb to comb your hair, and the person who helps "upper the head" must be a "full-blessing person", that is, this person has all six relatives and a house full of children.
Feeding the sedan chair meal: Before the bride gets on the sedan chair, the bride is urged to make up three times by the bridegroom, pretending that she does not want to get married, and is too lazy to dress up (of course, there are also those who are really unwilling in feudal marriages), and then sits on the mother's lap, and the mother feeds her daughter on the sedan chair Rice, implying not to forget the grace of nurturing.
Seated sedan chair: Sedan sedan chair, commonly known as "big red sedan chair", can be carried by four people or eight people. Sitting in a bridal sedan chair also means that the matchmaker is marrying the original wife, and a woman can only sit in a bridal sedan chair once in her life. Therefore, when the husband and wife quarreled, the words brought by the wife's mouth were: I was carried in by the red sedan chair, not walked up the door, in order to show off my nobility. Legend has it that the well-off king (Gao Zong) of the Southern Song Dynasty fled to Mingzhou. The golden soldiers chased him in a hurry. sedan chair. This is the history of women getting married wearing phoenix crowns and xiadao, sitting in eight-carried sedan chairs, beating gongs to clear the way, and giving way to official sedan chairs.
Search the sedan chair: When the sedan chair is parked, the door of the sedan chair must face outward. Someone from the woman's family will light a red candle and hold a mirror to look inside the sedan chair.
Marriage wine: The banquet wine prepared by the bride's family for the married daughter at noon is called "open noodles wine", commonly known as "marriage wine".
Barring the sedan chair door: When the sedan chair is approaching, the woman's family fires a firecracker to welcome the sedan chair, and immediately conceals the door "blocking the sedan chair door", and opens the door after stuffing red envelopes. In fact, it is to ask for red envelopes.
Crying on the sedan chair: When the daughter gets on the sedan chair, the mother cries to see her off. Most of the crying words are congratulations and exhortations, such as: "Nan, Nan, you can carry it, it's so loud! Go alone, come with the tide!" "Nong respects her parents-in-law, respects her blessings, respects her husband and has food to eat", etc. The bride was moved and said goodbye with tears.
Where does crying marriage come from?
According to the "Book of Rites", "Confucius said: In the house of a married daughter, candles are kept burning for three nights, thinking about each other." In ancient times, because the transportation was not as convenient as modern ones, it was difficult for a daughter to have the opportunity to see her family again after she got married. . In fact, a married woman cannot return to her natal family to visit her family at any time like today, and she needs the approval of her husband's family to return to her natal home. In addition, there are also the following sayings: It is said that crying marriage originated from the fact that women could not have free marriages in ancient times, so they would use the singing of crying marriage to complain about the unfair marriage system in ancient times.
Red hijab: The bride usually covers her head with a square red scarf three feet long on one side. This red scarf is called "hijab", commonly known as red hijab. It is usually the red hijab of men and women. There are generally two theories about the marriage custom of covering the head: one of them is that covering the head is to hide shame; the other is that it originated from the ancient marriage of plundering, which means that the bride will never be found after covering her head. It's time to go back.
Going out: Going out means that the bride leaves her natal home. This woman, from now on, will be born as a member of her husband's family and will die as a ghost of her husband's family.
Embrace the sedan chair: When the auspicious time arrives, the bride must be carried on the sedan chair by her elder brother. It is said that if the bride's feet touch the ground, it will bring bad luck. When going out, the bride's sister-in-law is not allowed to see her off. This is because the word "sister-in-law" has a homonym for broom star, and people are taboo that it will bring bad luck to the bride.
Holding a red umbrella: When the bride goes out, the bridesmaid holds up a red umbrella to protect the bride, which means spreading branches and leaves. Sister Dajin and all the sisters sprinkled rice on the sky, the top of the umbrella and the roof of the float while walking, and used it to "feed the golden chicken", which means that after the chicken pecks the rice, it will not peck the bride. When the bride stands on the steps in front of the open-air sedan chair, the sisters or bridesmaids will open a red umbrella on top of the bride's head, which means "spread branches and leaves", and sprinkle rice into the sky and the top of the umbrella. Before getting on the float at the end, the bride will bow to her relatives and friends to show her gratitude. After the bride enters the sedan chair and sits down, the buttocks should not move casually, so as to be safe and secure.
Pour out the ashes of the fire: put a fire box burning charcoal and spices under the bride's seat, and put a mat on the rear sedan chair of the sedan chair, commonly known as "the fire box in the sedan chair, the mat behind the sedan chair".
Delivering the sedan chair: When the sedan chair is picked up, the woman's family sets off firecrackers and sprinkles tea leaves and rice grains on the top of the sedan chair. The bride's brother walks with the sedan chair, which is called "sending the sedan chair".
Receive the kindling: Carrying the sedan chair in the urban area should go around to Qiantuifang or Sanfaqing (place name), etc., in order to win the prize of "Qiantui" and "Sanfa". Brothers will return halfway, and they have to pack some fire ashes back, and light incense or cigarettes from the fire, and put them in the fire jar when they return home. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com