Compared with the well-known saying in "San Zi Jing" that "at the beginning of man, nature is good", I am more inclined to Xunzi's "theory of evil nature", that is, human nature is inherently evil, with animal nature. And the reason why we human beings can break away from the animals that drink blood and become advanced animals is precisely because we human beings can overcome animal nature and cultivate human nature.
Continuously overcoming animal nature and gradually cultivating human nature is a necessary process for us to grow into a real human being. And the most primitive of us, what we have is the harsh animal nature. As for the most innocent cruel person, it is the child who seems to be the most innocent.
In the movie "Youth in Youth", which reflects school violence, I was very touched by a dialogue, which is roughly like this: "Did you bully others when you were young?" "Even if you did, it's not as bad as them!" Now that I grow up, I realize that it was wrong to bully others when I was young, right? So, people only learn to sympathize when they grow up."
Yes, people, you can only learn to empathize when you grow up.
Simple children will never understand what "sympathy" is, and people in the world often use "he (she) is still a child, not sensible." and other rhetoric to justify some of their really excessive behaviors. But the harm caused by children's ignorance to others Isn't it a kind of cruelty?
Ignorant, they don't care about the actual family economic situation, they cry and make a scene in the street in order to buy a beloved toy or snack, but they don't see the tired eyes and hunchbacked body of their parents; Wings, I am just curious about what would happen to a butterfly without wings, but I don¡¯t know that no matter how small a butterfly is, it is life; I am not sensible, for example, in elementary school, the relationship between boys and girls is the most tense stage, and it is not uncommon for little boys to bully little girls! It is estimated that what teachers often hear is "Teacher, he hit me!" These complaints that make people laugh and cry; ignorant, there are also some outrageous jokes among children, especially boys use branches as weapons, imitating TV dramas The martial arts contest, the result poked the opponent's eye!
At this point, can you use "he (she) is still a child, not sensible." to justify the heavy consequences of their ignorance? Don't blame the TV series! Is there a problem with the theme of the TV series? Or was the guardian miseducated?
I am also a victim of ignorance. In elementary school, the boys in the class learned how to be knights. They threw a triangle board in the classroom during class, and it hit my forehead directly. Fortunately, it was not my eyes; It's grimaces The most impressive time, when watching "Heroes of Fire" in the cinema in 2019, many adults cried like me. Such a good atmosphere, who would have thought that a little girl next to me looked at me and at her mother who was already crying beside her, tilted her head and muttered softly: "Why are you crying?"
Heh, my first thought at that time was also a little anxious: I should make her cry! Children, are you cold-blooded?
No, she is still a child, not sensible. Look, here we go again
It is true that children can be ignorant, they are young, and the three views are still in the stage of shaping, they can be easily corrected or distorted. What adults can do is to educate them correctly, let them learn to be sensible as soon as possible, overcome their inherent ignorance such as selfishness, and cultivate them to become human beings who can enter society.
I am also ashamed to write this, because - I myself have never been sensible!
When I was a child, I just thought about taking blindly from my parents, thinking that what my parents gave me was justified, and thinking that my parents should give me the best. But when I grew up, under the guidance of my parents and my own perception, I learned to be sensible.
And at the moment when he was conscious and sensible, a pearl-sized spice emerged from the tip of his nose, condensing the regrets that had been suppressed for many years in the past. Although it was small, it pierced me deeply with acid mist, smoked my eyes to the point of tears, and pierced my heart to the point of blood.
Those pains are ignorant disputes, ignorant coquettishness, and ignorant stubbornness It is also a very common sentence "Okay, don't be naughty, I understand."
Sure enough, when I grew up, looking back, I suddenly realized how ignorant I was in the past! And my ignorance is not the epitome of many people in their youth?
Regrettably, our sensibility always coincidentally comes too late! Even as adults, they occasionally get impatient with their parents' love. But as we grow older and our parents get older, we become more and more patient. We no longer dislike our parents¡¯ concern as we did when we were young, but we can coax our parents with a smile: ¡°Parents, don¡¯t worry, everything is fine with me.¡± "" "Old man, don't be afraid, it's alright."
After speaking, we may habitually hold the hands of our parents, but it is no longer as wide and powerful as we remember in childhood, as if we can take care of everything, against everything.
Today, the hands that nurture us as adults are covered with calluses, uneven fine lines, dry and yellow skin
Indeed, when our parents get old, we grow up and become people who can restrain ourselves when we enter the society, understand the ways of the world, and understand good and evil.
Finally we are sensible!
Don't you think it's too late? Because growing up also means that we spend less time with our parents. Most of the time, the sensible people at that time could only turn into a sentence at the end of the phone, perhaps holding back tears and sour nasal cavity, for fear that their parents would worry, "I'm fine."
Therefore, don't let it be too late to be sensible. Time never stops, and the willow will become shade in a blink of an eye; I hope that in the future life, I can treat everyone I meet with my heart
?November 4, 2020 (Remember the website URL: www.hlnovel.com