Perhaps every man has had two such women, at least two. Marry a red rose and eventually, the red one will be a mosquito-blood smear on the wall, while the white one will still be "moonlight in front of my bed"; It is a cinnabar mole on the heart¡ª¡ª
Zhang Ailing "Red Rose and White Rose"
At the beginning of the article, I used a famous saying by Teacher Zhang Ailing that is still popular today. But this sentence can not only be applied to the most superficial feelings between men and women, but also can be reflected in all aspects of life In short, it is four words: nothing more.
Unfulfilled feelings: but that's all
Persistence in one thought? How obsessed! I have been haunted by dreams for several years, just to move myself! In the end, it is nothing more than an obsession in the heart.
It is very rare for a couple in the world to know each other and fall in love with each other since they were young, and then enter the palace of marriage; similarly, there are very few couples in the world who are each other's first love.
It is true that first love is unforgettable, but it failed after all. That unavailable partner is everyone's bright and white moonlight, and the bright red cinnabar mole in the heart.
However, if you really get it, will it be so beautiful?
?As time goes by, marriages face all kinds of tests and pressures in life, won't Bai Yueguang be boiled into white rice grains, and cinnabar moles won't be slapped into mosquito blood?
If at that time, men and women who have already been extinguished by their first love, will they face the first love who is already tired of seeing each other, and can't help but sigh: Oh, that's all!
Therefore, what is not available is the best. Or to be precise, people's obsession with the unobtainable person is just to immerse themselves in their beautiful fantasies about him (her), and what they love is not the real person, but the person in their own imagination.
Yearning food: but that's it
Human beings have a kind of yearning and obsession for things with exquisite appearance or high reputation, but when they really fall into their stomachs, they may also sigh: Oh, that's all!
I remember that a new milk tea shop opened in the snack street of the university, and there was an endless stream of students queuing up to buy it. It is said that their red bean stewed grass jelly milk tea is very delicious. So, I followed suit and waited for more than 20 minutes before tasting the legendary cup of "star" milk tea. But I was very disappointed. I thought the milk tea tasted mediocre, and the price was too expensive. I wasted time and money, and I regret it so much! Haven't been there since.
There is also a Naixue family¡¯s Oreo bread that I like more, because I was sick during the annual holiday, I have never had a chance to taste the aftertaste, and I miss it very much! But when I actually ate it, I was stunned and questioned myself: Oh, but it¡¯s just that, and it took you so long to read it!
In fact, when I think about it carefully, what I am obsessed with is the obsession in my heart, not only the cup of milk tea, but also this piece of bread
Temporary setbacks: but that's all
Sometimes, you will be so weak that you will burst into tears because of a word from others; but sometimes, you will be strong enough to survive the difficulties you never thought you could overcome.
Human beings are a unity of fragility and tenacity, and the two opposites of fragility and strength are also two extremes of a person.
Once a person becomes weak, he may really give up food and even give up his life because of some strange things in the eyes of outsiders; once a person becomes tenacious, he will create miracles that shock the world one after another, such as physics with a disabled body and a strong heart. Stephen Hawking, Helen Keller who wrote "If You Give Me Three Days of Light"
As far as I am concerned, my darkest period is the three years of high school with insomnia and breathlessness. Excessive nervousness made me only go to an ordinary school, which failed to meet the expectations of teachers and parents. But looking back, I thought I was funny again! He actually tortured himself to the point of exhaustion because of a college entrance examination!
In fact, my disappointment in the college entrance examination did not really lead to the "sky falling". During my college days, I still studied hard and achieved a lot of achievements. I also graduated successfully and got a job smoothly. So, if you fail the exam, is it really over? No, that's all!
?Life is long, opportunities and challenges coexist. If the opportunity is unfortunately missed, don't be too sad, because the east is not bright and the west is bright. If the challenge is very difficult, don't be overly anxious, because there must be a way before the car reaches the mountain. Have the courage to face it, think of ways to solve it, and strive to be a strong person in life, maybe you will get through it all at once! At that time, you will surely sigh: Oh, but¡ªthat¡¯s it!
? August 15, 2020 (Remember the website URL: www.hlnovel.com