Equality is an ideal state that is generally pursued in today's international society, such as our most common "equality between men and women".
However, the emergence of the term "equality between men and women" itself does not mean equality! Because this is a word that has been produced in modern times to protect the rights and interests of women in the world. When it was born, its emotional color tended to emphasize women's rights and interests.
Obviously, equality between men and women in the literal sense should be to protect the legitimate interests of men and women. But in real life, this word is more like the bondage of men and the umbrella of women. Therefore, this word does not play a big role at present, and this kind of equality is also difficult to achieve.
The so-called "equality" is a relative category. Because of absolute fairness - it is impossible to exist! ! ! For example, in modern society, women can wear skirts and have long hair. If they were replaced by men, wouldn't they become an alternative that makes people laugh? It can be seen from this that men and women cannot achieve equality even in the most basic appearance and grooming!
Today, the group that often uses the term "equality between men and women" is basically women. Because they are well aware of the emotional color of this word, they tend to protect the female group themselves. In addition, whenever women interpret this word, they tend to adopt the principle of "seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages", trying to interpret this word as beneficial to themselves as possible. This is actually understandable, because it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
For example, when buying vegetables in the market, everyone will scramble to pick the freshest vegetables. When choosing a seat on the bus, you will also give priority to places with few people and away from light This is the human tendency to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. There is nothing wrong with it, right? In the same way, when it comes to equality between men and women, especially women, they will talk about the "equality between men and women" that benefits their interests from their own perspective.
It is ironic that some women often use gender equality one-sidedly. Once he finds that the situation is not good for him, he will roar with righteous indignation: "We demand equality between men and women!" But when it is his turn to move things, quarrel with boyfriends, and pay for meals, he will plausibly say: "Isn't this what men do? Is it a big man? Shouldn't men give way to women?"
Obviously, this is the equality between men and women distorted by some women with double standards, as if the final interpretation of this word belongs to women only.
So, why can't equality between men and women be a word to protect men's interests? In my opinion, because there is no need! After all, males are born with an advantage in physiology and are the strongest in the world, so why do they need to rely on "equality" to protect themselves pitifully?
Throughout the history of the development of human society, no matter ancient or modern, Chinese and foreign, a collocation pattern of "male dominates outside and women dominates inside" has been formed around the world. If the whole world is like this, then this is definitely not a coincidence! And in line with social laws. After all, what can survive through the passage of time, social progress, and changes in the times must be something reasonable.
However, this model has long violated the equality of men and women. People can agree that "men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside", but if the roles are reversed to achieve equality in experience, the men inside the host will be ridiculed as "eating soft food", and the women outside the host will also be discussed as " Tough girl"¡¡
Heh, do you still feel equal?
However, this inherently unequal model has reached the same consistency in all countries in the world, regardless of region, belief, or culture. In other words, this inequality model has international universality and has been widely recognized by people.
Therefore, equality between men and women must not be realized.
However, the rights and interests of women groups still need to be protected through various methods. Because women have been vulnerable groups since ancient times, and this weakness is not only the decision of the Creator, but also the choice of natural laws. Why did the earliest matrilineal clans become short-lived, and were always no match for the long-established patrilineal society? Why did Empress Wu Zetian have to return the country to the Li family after years of hard work? Why did Tian Xiaoe struggle against the feudal ethics, but died tragically in the end
All these are the inequality of women given by God!
It is because we are weak that we need to use "equality between men and women" to emphasize: women should have the same rights and interests as men! Therefore, equality between men and women at this level has naturally become an umbrella for women, and it has also become a constraint and shackle for men. In addition, various activities such as the Women's Federation and Women's Day are also aimed at reminding the society to remember to protect women.
Therefore, the weak will look forward to equality.
Women are inherently classified as "vulnerable groups", especially in ancient times, because they were too weak and suffered a lot of devastation. Chinese polygamy, sangong six courtyards, foot binding; African circumcision,The girdles of Western Europe are all ironclad evidence that women are tortured because of their weakness.
Therefore, in today's era, equality between men and women is advocated, emphasizing the protection of women's interests.
Putting it in a general direction, the international community is currently developing in a multi-polar direction. Despite the remarkable achievements made by the vast number of developing countries, the level of economic development of the entire Western countries is still ahead of the vast number of developing countries due to historical factors. For this reason, after the Second World War, proposals for the formation of a fair and just new international order were issued, and the advocates must also be developing countries. From this point of view, it is precisely because of the current temporary weakness that we earnestly look forward to equality.
A weak country has no diplomacy, let alone being treated equally.
More than a hundred years ago, the impoverished and weak my country was a lamb divided by the great powers. Even when it was the victor in the First World War at the Paris Peace Conference, it was forced to cede its territory. Equality at that time existed only among the Western powers, and they were qualified to talk about equality. And as the strong, they will only use "equality" to benefit themselves when dividing the spoils.
In contrast, China, a weak country at that time, was the one that really needed to use equality to protect national interests! But at that time, it was too weak, and even the most basic diplomacy was not taken seriously by those great powers. After that, under the guidance of countless revolutionary martyrs, our country finally achieved national independence and avenged its shame, and through unremitting efforts, it became an important power in the international world today, and even played an extraordinary role This growing strength, Only in this way can those Westerners who used to look down on us at all start to look up to us Chinese children.
So, this is the equality that comes from being strong. Only the weak can desire equality, but only the strong can speak of equality.
Fortunately, times have changed. Women born in the new era are really lucky! Even if equality between men and women cannot be truly realized, and women's rights and interests are still being worked hard. But in this increasingly progressive society, contemporary women can fully enjoy many things that women in the old era could not even imagine
We women can go to school and arm our minds with knowledge. We don¡¯t have to imagine that Zhu Yingtai has to dress up as a woman to study. We women can rely on labor to support ourselves, and we don¡¯t have to be dissatisfied with our husband Jin Yanxi because of going out to work like Leng Qingqiu
? Women in the new era must first learn to be self-improving and gain financial independence! Economic independence is the premise of personality independence and the basis for gaining strength and confidence. Only women who are self-reliant and self-reliant can truly improve their status, and can no longer use the phrase "equality between men and women" to protect themselves swearingly.
Only you can redeem yourself, and only self-improvement can improve yourself. Don't foolishly believe the classic line in "The King of Comedy" that has moved countless innocent girls to tears: "Don't go to work, I will support you."
So, what is the difference between this kind of women and those women who counted on men in the old days? How is it different from those women who do not know how to improve themselves but still use equality between men and women to accuse society of injustice? How can the majority of female compatriots achieve liberation?
Heh, since you are weak, then seize the opportunity of the times, strive to improve yourself, and strive to become equal as soon as possible.
? January 15, 2020 (remember this website URL: www.hlnovel.com