"It's a bit early to avoid milk after one year old." Ye Chuchu said.
In the countryside of this era, children usually eat milk until they are two years old, and some will eat it until they are three years old, because the country people do not recognize milk powder, and of course they cannot afford it.
"It's a bit early, but there's nothing I can do about it." He Songzhi said, "I'm also in a hurry."
"Did you sleep well at night?" Ye Chuchu asked.
"No, I often can't sleep at night, and I dream when I fall asleep. I have a lot of dreams, and sometimes I wake up." He Songzhi looked a little tired: "I don't know what's wrong, it hasn't been like this for the first half a year Well, it will be like this in the second half of the year."
"Are you thinking too much?" Ye Chuchu thought for a while and said, "That's why you can't sleep?"
He Songzhi nodded: "I'm thinking a little too much, I'm just, even in a hurry, I can't tell what I feel, I feel uncomfortable and unhappy."
"Did you quarrel?" Ye Chuchu asked tentatively.
"No." He Songzhi said: "Actually, since I got married, I haven't quarreled much. You don't know, their family is bored with everything, hiding, tucking, covering, and covering it, unlike some It¡¯s a family that quarrels and is overwhelmed, but their family is not, they are all suffocated.¡±
Ye Chuchu was amused: "This is what you thought."
"Yes, anyway, people won't admit it." He Songzhi said: "I didn't understand when I first got married, but after I had a child, I slowly realized that if you say that such a big family is together, how could it be possible?" It¡¯s not bumpy, but their family can¡¯t have it, anyway, they can¡¯t say it, I think it¡¯s fake!¡±
Ye Chuchu said: "That's right, there are a lot of things to do when a big family lives together, and it was the same in our family at that time, so Wen Tao has to separate and move out. By the way, isn't your house under construction?"
He Songzhi's house was built after the autumn harvest. Although it is just a shelf now, the country people don't pay much attention to decoration. They can live in it by closing the doors, windows, pots, stoves and kangs, and tidy up the rest slowly.
He Songzhi lay down lazily and said: "When I didn't build a house, I wanted to be like you, build a house like yours, clean it up, but now that the house is built, I don't have that mood, thinking I have to take care of the children, work in the fields, and cook and serve the animals, so I feel so boring."
Ye Chuchu looked at her, and suddenly remembered what Zhou Min had mentioned on the phone, postpartum depression, could it be that He Songzhi had this disease?
Thinking of this is even more worrying. Zhou Min said that this disease is not curable, and even those who are serious do not want to live.
"Don't think so, if you go to work in the fields, send the child to me." Ye Chuchu said: "Your house is not far from my house, just a few steps away, if you want to pick it up at noon Go back, if you don¡¯t want to pick it up, pick it up at night.¡±
He Songzhi regained his energy: "But Chuchu, you still want to bring Xiao Baiyang?"
"One sheep is herding and two sheep are herding. I have nothing to do at home. It's okay to watch more children."
He Songzhi was immediately moved and said: "Chuchu, you are so kind!"
Ye Chuchu gave her a white look: "You come to nagging me every day, don't you just ask me to babysit for you?"
He Songzhi smiled: "No, no, I'm just unhappy to say it!"
Ye Chuchu said: "Don't think about it so much. What are you thinking about so much for living? Think about something to eat and drink when you have nothing to do. Even if the land for the three of you is not much, Zhao Wenzhi will sooner or later be able to plant some crops that save trouble. Just do what a man should do. What about you, it doesn¡¯t take much effort to weed and thin out the seedlings, so why worry about it? In fact, the family is separated. You are also a family. Your parents-in-law are also the grandparents of the child. Send it to your mother-in-law, can you still say no?"
"She won't say no, she will just say behind my back that I can't do without her, that she has to babysit me at such an age, and so on!" He Songzhi complained, "I've heard it several times! Then Are you showing me the child, that is the child of their Zhao family!"
Ye Chuchu was speechless: "You're wrong, that's your and Zhao Wenzhi's child. Besides, just say what the old man said, and pretend you didn't hear it. Old people are like this. They like to talk, and it's not like your mother-in-law."
"Your mother-in-law is not like that, I've never heard of it." He Songzhi said.
"My mother-in-law is very good, but your mother-in-law is not bad either. You see, I stayed here for so long when you came. It's your mother-in-law who is taking care of the children. It's okay. It's normal to say a few words about you." Ye Chuchu said.
He Songzhi gave Ye Chuchu a resentful look: "I really wish I were you saying these things now."
Ye Chuchu pushed her angrily: "Just say that my back hurts when I stand and talk!"
He Songzhi smiled and said: "?? Not the same, I didn't think so either. I really envy you and want to live like this with you. "
"You can, wait until next spring, you can tidy up the house, it's not bad at all, don't forget, your family Wenzhi is a public family, and you get paid every month!" Ye Chuchu encouraged authentically.
He Songzhi said: "As for the public, he is a private teacher. The public is a public teacher. He earns more than 20 yuan a month. It is not as valuable as raising rabbits."
"Don't say that, the teacher is such a good job, teacher, a learned person, this is not the same as raising rabbits." Ye Chuchu said: "How important is reading, and teachers are even more important. Now it is run by the private sector. One day it will be converted into a public office. Besides, more than 20 yuan is not a lot."
He Songzhi nodded: "I know. In fact, my family's life is not bad. I didn't suffer too much when I got married. I have never been short of food and drink. Wenzhi is also good to me. Compared with those in our village who beat their wives and scolded their wives Yes, I'm really good."
"You have simply fallen into the nest of happiness!" Ye Chuchu said: "Be content and be happy!"
He Songzhi smiled: "Chuchu, thanks to you, without you, I don't even know who to talk to!"
"Without me, there would be someone else." Ye Chuchu said: "Next time, you can hold the child and play with little Baiyang."
"Okay." He Songzhi said.
He Songzhi talked about the conversation again and went back. At noon, Zhao Wenzhi came back for dinner. He Songzhi said that if the family were separated, she would go to work in the fields and send the child to Ye Chuchu. Unexpectedly, Zhao Wenzhi said: "Don't trouble others, come At that time, I told my mother that I would ask my mother to help her take care of her for another year, and when she was two years old, I would take her to school."
"Ah? Will the school let me take it?" He Songzhi was surprised.
"I teach the first grade. There is nothing wrong with bringing your own children to school. By the way, I will teach my daughter how to read and write. Girls, you must study hard!" Zhao Wenzhi said with emotion.
Zhao Wenzhi is He Songzhi's favorite point, because she loves to read, but unfortunately, her parents refused to let her study after finishing elementary school, saying that it is useless for a girl to study! She studied very well at the beginning, but she still has resentment towards her parents, her daughter, she must keep on reading! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com