Baizhu didn't want to stay in Pengcheng, nor Yangcheng for the time being.
Baizhu was born in 1962, 3 years older than Xia Xiaolan.
This year, Xia Xiaolan will be 23 years old, and Baizhu is a real 26-year-old girl.
Although it seems that she has nothing to do with the word "girl", in the eyes of Grandma Bai, the 26-year-old granddaughter doesn't worry about her life-long affairs at all, can the old lady rest assured?
"So you were forced to go to Qiongdao by marriage?"
This is too exaggerated.
Why worry at the age of 26, there are many people who are still in school at the age of 26!
Bai Zhuzhu's eyes were quite resentful, "You are already married at the age of 23, can my grandma be in a hurry?"
Baizhu didn't want to get married at all.
Who can accept her like this?
She also didn't want to wrong herself for an inexplicable man and force herself to make changes.
In the past, Xia Xiaolan was used as a shield. She said that her career was not big enough and she was not in a hurry to start a family. This year Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng got married, and Grandma Bai finally had something to refute Bai Zhenzhu: Xiaolan has done so much in her career and did not delay her marriage, why don't you get married?
People with bigger careers than you have families.
Your career is not as good as others', so why not be more active?
White Pearl was shot in the knee in an instant, and there was no way to refute it.
It is absolutely impossible for Grandma Bai to accept the concept of "not getting married"!
Not to mention Grandma Bai who lived in 1988, even the parents who lived in 2018, there are not many who can accept this idea of ??their children.
Not married? Anyone who is not married is wrong!
All gays and lilies are sick, and they will be cured when they get married!
Fortunately, Grandma Bai doesn't have enough knowledge, or because of Bai Zhuzhu's masculine attire and her refusal to marry a woman of the opposite sex, she would have to be beaten into the "lesbian" camp by Grandma Bai¡ª¡ª
Grandma Bai didn't understand, but Xia Xiaolan did.
Gay men, Lily, etc., 30 years later, there is nothing to hide. Some young people even proudly declare that they are bisexual, and their sexual orientation is no longer in line with public values
Even if Bai Zhenzhu is really a lesbian, Xia Xiaolan doesn't care, let alone Bai Zhenzhu is just not married.
Hearing that she was forced to marry and went to Qiongdao to avoid the limelight, Xia Xiaolan immediately agreed.
White Pearl also complained on the road:
"My sister-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy for my brother, and now she is a great hero of the Bai family. My grandma now completely listens to my sister-in-law. When these two get together, they will worry about whether I will get married or not. My sister-in-law will introduce me object."
? Those who work in government agencies in Yangcheng.
He looks gentle, and he was a college student who was just assigned to the office the year before last.
Baizhu's sister-in-law, Chang Ying, is not considered a cheating sister-in-law. The young man is innocent, has a gentle appearance, and is 2 years younger than Baizhu in education. With such good conditions, if it is Baizhu's turn, she won't laugh secretly?
Baizhu was originally going home to visit her nephew, when she suddenly saw a stranger at home, at first she thought it was a relative of Chang Ying's family, but Baizhu didn't take it seriously at all.
Later, her sister-in-law Chang Ying and her grandmother asked her in private how she felt about the young man, and Bai Zhenzhu realized that she had been arranged for a blind date without knowing it.
What's your impression?
Tall and thin, he might not be able to bear a punch from her!
Such a blessing, Bai Zhenzhu thinks she can't afford it.
She doesn't like gentle men, and she doesn't have any academic qualifications.
She also sees a lot of college students, such as Xiaolan, who are capable college students, and some who don't understand farts and only talk on paper The worship of academic qualifications does not exist in Baizhu. On a business trip, avoid the limelight.
Can't bear a punch What kind of standard is this?
But this has always been Baizhu's character.
Sister Pearl also kicked Du Zhaohui's teeth out.
Xia Xiaolan laughed, "Then you can't hide all the time. I think you need to talk to your family members about your own views on marriage. Do you have no plans to get married now, or do you plan to never get married for the rest of your life? You have to let your family People know what you think. They may not understand for a while, but it doesn't matter, they will always compromise after a long time."
Marriage plans?
Marriage is so troublesome, so she doesn't want to get married.
"I don't want to get married for the rest of my life, don't you think I'm weird?"
Baizhu couldn't help but ask Xia Xiaolan.
Xia Xiaolan shook her head, "I can't guarantee what other people think, but I think it's normal for me, and true friends respect each other, and I treat you as a friend, and I won't question you about this kind of thing."
What are you getting married for?
It's because they like each other, it's because two people want to work together to help each other, this is Xia Xiaolan's own understanding.
?But there are always some people who will take it for granted to judge others' choices. What is unfilial is three things: no offspring.
The hidden costs women pay in marriage are too high.
To undertake housework, to bear children, and to raise children, while doing these things, many women also have to work.
As for men, as long as they take their wages home, they seem to be able to shake their hands and become uncles. They don¡¯t have to do housework, don¡¯t care about their children, and just sit on a chair and wait for dinner.
Xia Xiaolan was an older leftover woman in her previous life. Not only was she busy with her career and delayed major life events, but she basically chose to be left on her own initiative. She really didn't have the courage to step into marriage¡ªinstead, she was single, earning money and spending it on her own. With good financial planning, there is no need to worry about future retirement life. Of course, she dared to choose that way because she has achieved financial freedom to a certain extent through her 20 years of hard work, so she is not afraid of future risks.
If it is a woman who can't even support herself, Xia Xiaolan really dare not instill in others the idea of ??'not getting married'.
White Pearl doesn't matter, now that she has tens of millions of net worth, does it matter whether she gets married or not? There are so many things to do every day, if not for the family urging the marriage, Bai Zhenzhu would not have thought of it.
If you want Xia Xiaolan to say, get married when you meet someone who is suitable and you like, and you don¡¯t have to force yourself if you don¡¯t meet one. You have to need "marriage" to prove to others that you belong to the group.
Bai Zhenzhu talked about this with Xia Xiaolan, and got Xia Xiaolan's approval, and she felt more relaxed.
Xiaolan also said that her wish is the most important thing!
Although sister-in-law Chang Ying is from the Bai family, and grandma is her closest relative, she doesn't really have to listen to them.
To put it more vulgarly, Chang Ying and her grandma's lives are quite standard, completely different from her choices. The so-called experienced guidance from someone who has experienced it is very tasteless to her!
White Pearl's thoughts suddenly became clear, and when he arrived at Qiongdao, he smiled and asked Xiaolan:
"Are you going to the army to see Zhou Cheng? Can I go with you?"
"what are you going to do?"
Xia Xiaolan asked casually, Bai Zhenzhu's face was filled with anticipation:
"On the day of your wedding with Zhou Cheng, I met Third Brother Pan. I have always been curious about Third Brother Pan's strength. I may not have been able to fight. After drinking the wedding wine that day, I couldn't help asking Third Brother Pan to fight. He said that you It is not appropriate to fight and kill on a happy day, it is better to make an appointment at another time!"
So you came to Qiongdao for an appointment?
¡ª¡ªLiar, he also said that he was escaping from his family's urge to marry him, and obviously came to fight with Pan Sange on purpose! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com