[That's right, that's right, this Zhang is a scumbag, that's right, this girl's brain is not much better. It seems that the living conditions of these two people are not very good, so the girl gave birth to the child for love electricity? Can you take care of it? ¡¿
[Secretly, I have a friend who works in this hospital, and this girl can't even afford the hospital bill]
¡¾The heart of the Virgin is so bursting even if you can't afford the hospitalization fee? Does she know how much a box of milk powder costs? How much until the child's diapers? Do you know that even children in small counties need housing and household registration to go to school? What kind of misfortune did the child have to suffer from such parents! ¡¿
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It took Lin Ruxia a long time to finish reading all these comments. She nodded while reading. She didn't expect that there are so many sober people now.
Because in the past, Lin Ruxia read many comments on her Weibo, one head and two big, and it seemed like a child's speech taken for granted.
But today she realized that her fans seem to have matured a lot.
Lin Ruxia tapped the screen again, and left a paragraph on Weibo¡ª¡ª
[@ÁÖÈçÏÄ: I have read everyone¡¯s comments, and I think what everyone said is very reasonable. Everyone must be cautious about the issue of having a baby. If you are not sure that you will be responsible for the baby after birth, then don't have a baby casually, otherwise the child will only bear pain in the future. Now the cost of raising a child is very high, and it requires more attention from parents. Coupled with various factors such as school districts and housing, many expenses are necessary and cannot be saved. If economic conditions do not allow it, the plan to have a baby can be postponed for a while, and the money for raising the child can be earned first.
Take myself as an example. My husband and I are preparing for pregnancy. I had the idea of ??having a baby before. Mr. Huo thought that both of us were too busy at work during that time to calm down and take care of our bodies, and he was not sure whether we would have enough time after the baby was born. Accompany him, so this plan has been shelved for the time being.
Now that we are not so busy, this plan has been put on the agenda. Yesterday, when my husband and I went to the hospital for an examination, we happened to encounter this incident, so we stopped it.
My mother is a strong woman. She raised me alone, but when I was growing up, because she was busy with the company, she had very little time with me. I was brought up by different aunts. This directly caused me to long for love and companionship too much when I grew up, so I met unkind people and was blinded by scumbags. Fortunately, I met Mr. Huo later, and I gradually recovered.
I think that when Mr. Huo and I have our own child, we will definitely spend more time with him, pay attention to his psychological needs, and make him a child with sound personality and mental health. This article is shared with all parents, children are angels, please protect them. ¡¿
After posting this, Lin Ruxia let out a sigh of relief.
The words she had kept in her heart for many years finally came out.
It's not that Lin Ruxia blamed Lin Bixia, but it is undeniable that many of Lin Bixia's actions in her childhood cast a shadow on Lin Ruxia.
Lin Bixia loved Lin Ruxia very much, but she couldn't express it, which made Lin Ruxia indulge in the tender web he made up after meeting Jiang Ciyan.
Adults will never imagine how much impact their frivolous words or understatement will have on children.
This influence will continue throughout the child's life.
Even after they grow up, they will be influenced by these influences.
So Lin Ruxia very much disapproved of the act of wanting to have a baby just because her head was hot.
A child is a complete life, an independent individual, a flower that needs a lot of love and enough money.
Why do left-behind children have such a high probability of being unhappy?
?Because they lacked the company and education of their parents since they were young, the outlook on life and values ??they formed at a very young age were affected by many bad things.
Lin Ruxia thought with a bit of heartache, maybe parents who want to have a baby should really take a test, and only after passing the test can they raise a small life.
At the very least, you can ensure that you can treat your children well and not transfer your negative emotions to them.
But many people can't do it.
That's why so many people break up with their parents when they grow up.
Why do the words "family of origin" gradually come into people's sight? Because too many people have been hurt because of their original family.
Looking at the comments on Weibo, Lin Ruxia's gloomy mood improved slightly.
Because everyone agrees with Lin Ruxia's point of view.
Lin Ruxia thinks, as long as everyone can gradually realize this, our next generation will live a happier life.
This kind of happiness is not only material, but also spiritual.
Only when the next generation gets better, our society will gradually get better, and our motherland and mother will become more prosperous and stronger.
Everyone is a screw in the operation of society. It may not seem very eye-catching, but as long as one screw is broken, the operation of the entire machine will be affected.
So everyone should have a stronger sense of social responsibility and let the machine run well together.
¡¾This passage is so good! I don't know if I am not a mother, but I understand that the title of "Four-legged Gold Swallowing Beast" is not for nothing. Now children's things are very expensive, and they have to buy essential items! Moreover, kindergarten is also very difficult to enter. You need a household registration and a house, and you have to interview your parents for their academic qualifications! ¡¿
[My child is already eight years old, and every day when he comes home from school, I have to prepare a bottle of Suxiao Jiuxin Pills by his side when I help him with his homework. I have to say that children are so angry now, I can really get mad, but I have to pay attention to my emotions, I can't just get angry at my children, I feel like I'm going to explode! Children are really hard to raise! ¡¿
¡¾I am a expectant mother. My husband performed very well during my pregnancy and took good care of my emotions, so I have always been in a good mood, and all the indicators were qualified during the prenatal checkup! As for my colleague, her husband doesn't care about her at all, and quarrels with her every day. My colleague has to cry several times a day, and her emotions have also affected the baby in her belly. The result of her prenatal examination is very bad! ¡¿
[I am a child influenced by my native family. When I was young, my parents were very busy every day. When they got angry at work outside, they would go home and vent their anger on me. They beat me and scolded me frequently, so that now I am a flattering personality, and I live very tired and unhappy every day. . I went to see a psychiatrist yesterday, I am already moderately depressed]
Lin Ruxia looked at these comments, and felt that each of them contained four words - be cautious about having a baby. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com