No matter how soft Deng Xiaofang was, Xu Yishan insisted on not agreeing to go out with her.
After working in the provincial capital for a period of time, Xu Yishan also knew some anecdotes about the leading cadres around him. Although men don't want to gossip, sometimes it's about the future, and it's better to be careful than to be unaware.
It is well known that the relationship between Deng Xiaofang and her husband is not very good. Their marriage itself is a product of politics. It is said that Deng Xiaofang's father was the head of a department in the central province, and her husband was her father's secretary.
As for who was chasing after her and her later husband, no one can tell. Deng Xiaofang kept saying in front of people that it was her husband who chased her first. And she hinted that her husband, who was a secretary back then, used some tricks to get her to fall for him.
After the two got married, their relationship has been tepid. Until Deng Xiaofang gave birth to a child, her father retired again, and her husband was lucky, and flew up like a plane. The relationship between the two gradually became estranged because the husband was away from home for a long time.
Deng Xiaofang loved to play when she was a daughter. After she got married and had children, she still couldn't get rid of her love for playing.
Her husband hoped that she would take care of her husband and children at home, and just be her official wife. But it was firmly opposed by Deng Xiaofang. Deng Xiaofang insists on a truth, a woman, no matter how good her husband is and how capable she is, she still has to have a career.
A woman with a career doesn't have to look up and beg her husband. A woman is nothing more than a sense of security. The core of the sense of security is the economy. Deng Xiaofang insists on earning money and spending it herself, and she rarely reaches out to her husband for money to spend.
Of course, this is also related to her origin. After all, her father had retired as the head of the Central Province. No matter how difficult the economy was, a lean camel was bigger than a horse.
They maintain the image of a happy family to the outside world. The community selects five good families every year, and her family is on the list every year.
Only Deng Xiaofang knew in her heart that she and her husband were just a marriage in name only. To paraphrase a saying in today's society to describe the relationship between husband and wife without emotion, they are husband and wife during the day and brothers at night.
Strictly speaking, Deng Xiaofang and her husband are not even considered brothers. After all, the brothers still have a few words to say, they are at home, almost all play their own way, and rarely communicate. She also sleeps in separate rooms, and her husband has been sleeping in the study for five years.
Couples without any feelings are more indifferent than passers-by. Loneliness and loneliness often accompany her from opening her eyes to dawn. According to Deng Xiaofang's self-mockery in front of her girlfriends, her husband quit her.
Of course, Deng Xiaofang knew that a man with a strong desire for power like her husband would never have low physical desire. It can be deduced from this that if the husband quits her, it does not mean that he quits the woman.
Sexless marriage is cold violence. Deng Xiaofang once mentioned the idea of ??divorce. But she was firmly rejected by her husband. He needs a very decent positive image, which will help him to make great achievements in his official career.
It is impossible for any man whose marriage fails to stand out in the official career. After all, in this country where morality and ethics run deep into everyone's blood, whether the family is happy or not is one of the signs to measure a man's success.
In the end, they reached a tacit agreement. That is not to interfere with each other's private life.
Even so, they always adhere to a bottom line, that is, no matter who they are, they cannot affect each other because of their private life.
Xu Yishan didn't know that Deng Xiaofang had such a big secret buried in his heart. Deng Xiaofang's husband, Rong Hai, Party Secretary of Jucheng City, is a serious person. The head of the municipal party committee where the provincial capital is located naturally sits on the standing committee of the provincial party committee. Therefore, Xu Yishan met Rong Hai several times at the Standing Committee of the Provincial Party Committee.
Rong Hai's unsmiling manner will invisibly bring heavy psychological pressure to others. Xu Yishan thought to himself, Deng Xiaofang's wild laughter all day long is in stark contrast to Rong Hai who is as serious as a piece of iron. It is not without reason that the relationship between the two people has become rusty and weak.
Xu Yishan resigned firmly and refused to go outside with Deng Xiaofang to have fun, which made Deng Xiaofang angry.
She pointed to Xu Yishan and said: "Xu Yishan, I didn't let you die, why are you pushing left and right, is it interesting? No girl or daughter-in-law dislikes you, but you still dislike others. What do you mean?"
Xu Yishan smiled and said: "You are absolutely right. You are a group of women, and I am the only man. I am really afraid."
"What are you afraid of? Afraid that we will eat you." Deng Xiaofang smiled meaningfully and said, "Even if we want to eat, you have to be willing. How can there be such a stinky man like you in the world? Like a group of flowers You're not happy with the girls playing with you, but you throw it away like rubbish, the treatment that others dream of."
Xu Yishan had no choice but to admit: "Deng Xiaofang, I'm really not used to your madness."
"uscrazy? Deng Xiaofang was overjoyed, "You are absolutely right." You thought we were willing to be crazy. Who doesn't want to leave a dignified and virtuous appearance for others? But now it is a patriarchal society, if we don¡¯t try to have fun, will you men take the initiative to give us a chance to have fun? "
Deng Xiaofang got excited while talking, "This society is unfair. If you men play, you are romantic. If we women play, you are morally corrupt. This kind of double-standard vision should be broken."
She suddenly came up to him, lowered her voice very low, and said ambiguously: "You still remember Meiyuan, right? The little girl is talking about you every day."
A charming dancing figure quickly jumped out of Xu Yishan's mind. Thinking of Meiyuan's one-word horse amidst the exclamation at the end, I couldn't feel the tip of my heart trembling.
Dancing is an erotic art! Xu Yishan couldn't remember which book he saw this sentence in, and he was still puzzled. It wasn't until Meiyuan danced in front of him that he did a split-horse dance, that he fully understood that someone had summed up the essence of dance long ago.
"Also, Shen Ya is also asking you." Deng Xiaofang said enviously: "I know, one of them can dance, and the other is a big girl with yellow flowers. In your eyes, Xu Yishan has different weight in your heart. It's not like me. , a remnant flower, a dead willow, you Xu Yishan look down on you from the bottom of your heart, don¡¯t you?¡±
Xu Yishan quickly explained: "Deng Xiaofang, it's meaningless for you to say that. Your beautiful lady Deng is a famous woman, and others don't dare to reach out even if they want to break it."
Upon hearing this, Deng Xiaofang stared at him blankly, and asked with a half-smile, "I ask you, do you want to fold?"
"I can not."
"I'm asking you, do you want to?"
Xu Yishan shook his head without hesitation.
Deng Xiaofang's originally hopeful eyes dimmed instantly. She pouted and said, "I knew it, you look down on me."
"That's not what I meant." Xu Yishan hurriedly argued, "Let's talk, let's joke. Deng Xiaofang, let's not talk about this topic, okay? Now that you have been promoted, you should focus on your new job. I am I have no chance to leave, so I can only stay in the party school to continue studying. If the school does not fail, I will not graduate.¡±
Deng Xiaofang burst out laughing, covered her mouth and said, "Xu Yishan, let me tell you some news. This news may be useful to you."
Xu Yishan smiled, but did not express his opinion.
He believes that there is no need to question Deng Xiaofang's source. Not to mention that her husband, Rong Haigui, is a member of the Standing Committee of the Provincial Party Committee, the news can be learned from Rong Hai. Take her own circle in the provincial capital, she wants to know some confidential information, isn't it easy to find?
Gossip is mostly regarded as rumors. Surprisingly, rumors can often become reality.
"Do you know who the future mayor of Hengyue City is?"
Xu Yishan smiled and said: "It seems that this has nothing to do with me?"
"Is it really irrelevant?" Deng Xiaofang snorted, "Since it is irrelevant, I am too lazy to say it."