Jing Shaoqing grabbed her wrist, with tiredness in his eyes: "The wine I drank with Tingchen really did nothing else. Forget it, let me tell you the truth, the life I want now is not what I want. I have you in my planned life, but I don¡¯t live with my mother, and I don¡¯t have children. I can¡¯t bear the sudden addition of two people in my family, and the noise every day. For me, it¡¯s not lively, it¡¯s uncomfortable, it¡¯s torture. Every day As long as the child cries in the middle of the night, I will definitely wake up, and I will not be able to fall asleep when I wake up, and I will almost have a nervous breakdown."
Chen Mengyao stared at him in a daze: "If you love me, you should love the house and the crow, that is our child, not a bastard born to me, and you are not a happy father! Also, this is your own mother, how do you Are you uncomfortable? You didn't disagree with the childbirth, what do you mean by saying that now?"
Jiu Zhuang was timid, Jing Shaoqing took a deep breath, and expressed all the depression in his heart: "Yes, I have no disagreement, but I have never raised children, and I don't know that the house will become noisy. This It's something I didn't think about before, it's my problem. I discussed with you to let my mother raise it first, and then bring the child by myself when the child is older. You disagree, and you didn't even discuss this issue with me seriously. I am a lot I lived alone years ago, I don¡¯t like too many people in my family, can you understand? Can you think about it for me once in a while?¡±
Chen Mengyao was choked, yes, she knew before that Jing Shaoqing didn't like strangers in the family, but she didn't expect that to him, children and mothers were also considered 'strangers', let alone this question would evolved to this extent.
When she was still shrouded in the joy of being a mother, Jing Shaoqing had already started to suffer from neurasthenia and couldn't sleep well, but she never noticed it.
The anger in her heart gradually dissipated, and she felt a little guilty. He used to be an unmarried man, so his attitude has always been very clear. She shouldn't see him accepting her to live with her, and think that he can accept everything.
After a long time, she hugged him: "I'm sorry, I ignored your feelings. I I promised to give the child to your mother, we will go there every day to eat, see the child, and save some milk by the way. Let the baby breastfeed as much as possible, okay? This is the best solution I can think of. I don't force you to make compromises for me, but it's really impossible for me to leave the baby to your mother and leave it alone."
Jing Shaoqing breathed a sigh of relief: "Do you think my heart is made of stone? I didn't ask you to ignore the child, but to live together. I can't stand it. If you can't take care of the child well, my mother will have to come over." Help me, I really don't get used to it. I'm used to being free, and I can restrain myself for you, but apart from you, I can't do it."
As long as Chen Mengyao is willing to compromise, there is nothing to argue about. Although Chen Mengyao is reluctant to have children, she doesn't want her relationship with Jing Shaoqing to deteriorate because of this. Everyone has different experiences and lifestyles. Jing Shaoqing has changed too much for her, and she can't always focus on herself.
After the beacon fire dissipated, Chen Mengyao unbuttoned his shirt while the night was getting dark: "Are you still bored now? Do you want to relax again?"
Jing Shaoqing grabbed her slender hand: "Don't play with fire, I'm used to being a 'vegetarian' eater, and I've endured it for too long. It's not long after your surgery, so wait a little longer."
She was puzzled: "I'm already confinement, do you not want to touch me, or are you really concerned about my body?"
Jing Shaoqing was a little helpless: "I'm afraid you haven't read the doctor's instructions for leaving the hospital. Two months, bear with it. I'll take a shower and go to sleep. Go to bed first. It's so late. If you don't sleep, you won't even have to feed your baby." Well, it¡¯s not much.¡±
Seeing him enter the bathroom, Chen Mengyao was skeptical, she thought it would be fine after confinement
But the milk thing is really strange, Wen Yan is so thin and can feed Xiaotuanzi, and her health is much better than Wen Yan, and she usually has to feed the child with milk powder, no matter what kind of tonic soup, it's useless.
The next day, when Jing Shaoqing went to the company, Chen Mengyao made a proposal to Xia Lan: "Mom, take the child away, I want to go to the company to continue working, and I'm going to be sick soon. After work We will go to your place for dinner, see the children, come back at night, and take the children out to play on weekends."
Xia Lan stared at her for two seconds: "Don't put everything on yourself, it's not because you want to work that you leave the child behind, it's Shaoqing's problem, right? I don't know him yet? He's ready to talk to you He was ready to spend the rest of his life together, but he was not ready to be a father. He was used to living alone, and he couldn¡¯t bear the extra crying child, so I said from the beginning, the child was born and brought to me. It's okay, I'll let Shaoqing's father pick me up with the child today, you two, just live your own lives, and I will take good care of the child."
Chen Mengyao smiled: "Mom, you know everything about him, I didn't realize it, or he told me last night,Only then did I realize how much pressure he had during this time. He is so patient, he took care of me and the child every day during the confinement period, and I didn't see him unhappy. I will leave the child to you, and I can rest assured that I will leave it to you. When the child is a little older, we will raise it by ourselves, please. "
Xia Lan smiled and glared at her: "What are you talking about? Is it troublesome or not? This is my grandson, and it's too late for me to care about it. Anyway, I usually have nothing to do, so I can still take care of a child. There is a nanny. By the way, I put Doudou in the yard and built a small house for it to live in. I am afraid that dog hair bacteria or something will be bad for the child, so I don¡¯t have to worry about it when the child is older.¡±
If Xia Lan hadn't mentioned Doudou, Chen Mengyao would have almost forgotten that there is a dog in Jing's mansion! That's Xia Lan's pet dog, Xia Lan moved Doudou to live in the yard just for the sake of the child, she felt a little sorry: "Mom, it's actually fine, Doudou you usually take care of it very cleanly, and you are obedient and sensible You can't wrong your pet dog just because you helped us take care of the child? I don't mind, how you raised it before, you can raise it now, but when the child is too young, just don't let Doudou come into contact with the child. "
Xia Lan shook her head: "It's okay, no grievances, the kennel is quite big, and there is enough space for activities in the yard, and it can be regarded as living under the same roof. It's not that I don't want it, there is nothing to be wronged, so don't worry , as long as you have a good relationship with Shaoqing, as long as you and Shaoqing are good, you can do whatever you want here, it's fine."
Chen Mengyao hugged Xia Lan: "Mom, you are so kind!"
Xia Lan patted her on the back: "Okay, okay, I'm going to see the child. It's time to change the diaper. You can have breakfast. Let's have a good day today. I'll take the child away later." (Note Website website: www.hlnovel.com