Cai Xiaoman told Gao Shi that he wanted to learn the rules, and hoped that she could help him find the right person. Gao Shi was deeply moved.
"After all, I have grown up. I used to be the most unruly, but now I take the initiative to learn."
"I will pass the exam next year, so I can't be as self-willed as a child." Cai Xiaoman said with a smile, "I don't know what to do in the future, but it is always right to learn more."
She is not that unscrupulous, and the basic etiquette still needs to be learned, and it is better sooner rather than later. This is a habit, and it is always easy to inadvertently reveal the truth when you learn it temporarily.
"This is reasonable. I was afraid that you would make trouble on this again. I thought that this kind of thing is unnecessary, just do your own thing. Now you can figure it out yourself, so I don't need to talk about it." Gao said comfortingly, "If you want to learn, you have to study hard, and you can't look for those half-baked people, so as not to waste time and make jokes."
"Mom, do you know anyone?"
Mrs. Gao shook her head: "I really want to learn from those old ladies who came from the capital. They know all the rules of the capital, so they can treat people better in the future. This kind of old lady has high eyes. People are just afraid that they will look down on them."
Cai Xiaoman also understands this etiquette, following these old ladies not only has to learn various etiquettes, but they will also tell you the general situation of the capital. If those are well-informed, they will also inform each family relationship, various hobbies, etc., which are very powerful information resources. With these, you will know how to act in the future, and you will not bump into the stunned youth.
After Gu Huaijin was elected, he talked with her, and he was afraid that he would take root in the capital in the future.
Although there are many talents at the feet of the emperor, it is also the place with the most opportunities.
If you want to make a difference, you must stay in the capital. It is not difficult to go to a place from the capital, but it is like going to the sky in reverse. Only those whose family power is strong enough will go down to the local area to gain qualifications. Although this is also a good way to get promoted, it takes much more time and energy than staying in the capital.
The DPRK and China are changing rapidly, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow. It is very likely that it will never return, and it will be difficult to return to the axis again.
Therefore, many people would rather stay in the capital and do nothing temporarily than move to other places.
Furthermore, his teacher was there, and he grew up in Beijing Middle School in the past. Although there were few people who helped him when he was in trouble, it was much easier to build contacts than other places.
Therefore, Cai Xiaoman must also be prepared to leave his hometown. The Cai family also understands this, so they hope to get married later. Otherwise, once married, it will be very difficult to meet again.
From Yangcheng to Beijing, it will take ten days if the waterway goes smoothly. If it is winter, the canal will still be frozen, and several places are still very dangerous. In case of wind and rain, it will be delayed for several days. If it is a dry road, it will take longer for safe places, and if you want to take a shortcut, you have to pass through places where bandits appear.
It is very difficult to prepare for at least a month of tossing around this time.
Cai Xiaoman also guessed that it was not easy, so he thought about preparing in advance, otherwise it would be more likely to go wrong if he waited to find someone at a critical moment.
"I asked Skinny Monkey to help me find out more. If it really doesn't work, I'll find a similar one first, and we'll talk about it when we go to the capital."
"I'm going to say hello to the Cao family too. Not only you, but your sister also has to learn." Gao made up her mind, Cao Yunteng is also capable, and Cai Xiaoxue will also meet many officials, wives and ladies in the future, so she has to learn Be polite so you won't be laughed at.
The Cao family made a lot of jokes, so many people felt that they were not worthy of the stage. Gao thought from the bottom of her heart, not only the two sisters, but also the whole family must not be sloppy, otherwise Cai Xiaohu's prospects would be delayed in the future.
There are not many old nuns in Yangcheng who teach manners, but their levels vary.
Mrs. Gao sent a message to Aunt Cao, and Aunt Cao sighed: "My eldest brother and sister-in-law have also found people before, but all those capable old ladies were invited by those rich and noble families, and they will not teach others easily."
The classes here are distinct, and the "upstarts" who cross classes are very contemptuous. In order to make myself superior and be able to see the jokes, I don't want the other party to blend in at all.
Therefore, those who have made a fortune in general are incomparable with the so-called aristocratic family. Their behavior is always vulgar, which makes people feel that they are not on the stage.
However, the kind of family that is now down and down is different. Even if the descendants are no longer capable, they will still be respected. Because their inheritance is incomparable to those who have been well-connected for several generations.
Upstarts are always more difficult, presenting in all aspects.
"Then there is no other way?" Gao said worriedly, she didn't want Cai Xiaoman to have a hard time getting married. Although she is big-hearted, sheWell, it's better to think about what he should take with him. His widowed mother is worthless, and we have to come to buy things for the road. "
Although the big guy will complain a few words, there is still a lot to do. He also advised Cai Xiaoman not to keep putting on a face, so that Gu Huaijin would feel even more uncomfortable when he went to the capital.
Cai Xiaoman is afraid to think of parting, especially when he thinks that there is no one around him, he feels even more uncomfortable. Before Cai Xiaoxue got married, it took her a while to get used to it. Now that it's so far away, it's even more uncomfortable.
So she forced herself to study what food Gu Huaijin should bring with her on the road. Not only is it easy to cook and tastes good, but it also has to be durable.
Although there are many post stations on the road that provide board and lodging, it is still difficult to eat on the road. The weather is still cold now, but it is still convenient, and things are not so easy to break.
That day finally came, when Gu Huaijin saw the pile of things Cai Xiaoman had prepared, his heart became even more sour.
Cai Xiaoman has been cooking all kinds of food desperately these days, and the result is piled up like a hill. Knowing that it is very difficult to carry, but the words of rejection can't be said at all.
In the end, he was only able to squeeze out one sentence: "Xiaoman, wait for me to come back." (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel.com