Sister Wang laughed and yelled a few times. Her son was still a little scared of Lei Fang, an aunt, and had already gone back to the house with breakfast.
The two exchanged a few more pleasantries before returning to their own homes.
"Okay, why don't you hurry up and study?" Lei Fang glanced at her daughter who was standing aside, and put aside the test paper and ruler in her hand, "It's okay this time, but you can't be complacent. Do you think your Aunt Wang is Really complimenting you? People are being polite, you have to be self-aware. If you are stupid, you have to use mechanics. If you don¡¯t give me a good grade in the next semester¡¯s entrance exam, you should stop studying and go out to work. leather shoes!"
If it was Tan Miao, she would have to be frightened by her again now.
Fortunately, the one standing here is no longer that poor little girl, Yu Miao glanced at Lei Fang, and suddenly said, "Mom, won't you apologize to me?"
"What?" Lei Fang was about to go out to find someone to chat with, when she heard this sentence, she turned and looked at Yu Miao.
"Just now, I said that I didn't copy the answers, and that I answered the questions myself, but you refused to believe me and beat me." Yu Miao's expression was flat, as if talking about other people's affairs, "Now prove that I didn't lie, it was you who made a mistake, won't you apologize to me? Mom, you said that you have to correct and apologize after making a mistake, why didn't you do that? "
Tan Miao once thought about this question, and many, many children have also thought about it.
why?
Why do adults teach children that if you do something wrong, you should admit it and correct it in time.
The attitude of admitting mistakes must also be sincere, and one cannot act unwillingly, otherwise, the lesson is still owed, and the attitude is not correct.
Correction must be thorough, and you must not commit it again next time, otherwise you will not have a long memory.
But why don't adults do this?
They misunderstood the child, so they smiled and uncovered it. If the child made a mistake, he had to be taught a lesson and beat up. They were wrong, but they just said "I didn't expect that?" "I didn't do it on purpose" "I'm your parent, I can't teach you a lesson?!" "There is no reason for parents to admit their mistakes to their children"
You can't have such double standards in life.
Even the relationship between biological parents and children.
Since it is necessary to have such strict requirements on children, shouldn't parents lead by example?
Or maybe because of this ambiguous attitude, the children who were unwilling in the past grew up day by day, and a large part of them turned out to be the adults they didn't like the most.
They treated their own children in the same way, and started a new round of resistance and dissatisfaction.
During Yu Miao's growing up, the link of parents was actually missing.
The biological parents had an accident too early, and they left before they could even give her much company.
But to be able to have such a daughter, Yu's parents are actually very open-minded, and they treat their children with extra respect and love.
This allowed Yu Miao to remember the warmth that originally belonged to her parents no matter how much she experienced later, she even thought for a while that all parents in the world were like that.
Unfortunately, it is not.
She is now standing here, replacing the little girl who has passed away, and asked this question¡ª¡ª
Mom, you are wrong, why can't you apologize like you said? (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com